Alicia and her team have coached over 1,000 women across the US and Canada, and the Planner shares many of the frameworks we use in our coaching program. The strategy and preparation principles apply universally — but specific legal references (separation date rules, financial disclosure, support calculations) are based on US and Canadian systems, so women in other regions will need to adapt them to local laws.

For full discretion, the surest approach is to pay with an account only you can access — your own credit card, or your own PayPal account funded by your own bank account or credit card. If the account is yours alone, there’s simply nothing on a shared statement to explain.

The next best option is a prepaid virtual gift card (you can grab one here) or a trusted friend’s credit card — again, nothing lands on a statement you share.

And if you need to use a joint credit card or PayPal account, we’ve thought of that too. On credit cards we pass the statement descriptor THRIVE — a common, everyday household name that can mean any number of things. In most cases it displays exactly as THRIVE, though occasionally a bank will run it through its own system and adjust it slightly — abbreviating it or adding a local prefix — so we can’t promise it’s identical at every bank. PayPal is the one exception: it always shows Lemonade Life, so on a shared account, credit card checkout is the more discreet choice.

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Getting clear on what YOU want and how to achieve it has the potential to completely change the dynamic — saving thousands of dollars and countless hours. The Planner helps you prepare for high-conflict situations with communication templates and strategic frameworks.

The antidote to overwhelm is having a plan. The Planner gives you everything you need to make sense of the pieces that are overwhelming you right now. Most women say they feel lighter after the first 20 minutes.

Your Planner arrives by email within minutes of purchase — check your inbox (and spam) to find it. You'll also be invited to take a quick survey so we can customize the support available to you from Lemonade Life. Everything is digital, so you can start right away from any device.

Yes — 30 days, no questions asked. That’s how confident we are in this resource. If it’s not for you, just email us and we’ll refund you in full.